When your family member is a medical professional...

Please read this at your leisure.

I was smiling and feeling cheeky while typing this. You should too.

And another thing. I couldn't write this kind of thing in Bahasa Malaysia as my expression will be totally unacceptable to some. Haha! Enjoy!

I am not an English expert too. Ahah. If you find somewhat grammar mistakes, please pinpoint them no hassle!

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This has been long overdue.

I have not manage to express myself carefully and sincerely. My thought and feeling hurt in a way that in the end I won't be bothered anymore I'd say.

In this kind of situation, what will you do as a family member? What will you do if you were me?

Unfortunately, I have encountered series of bad experiences with family members that were reluctant to accept my advices. Or should I say my medical advices?

What will you feel when your advices to prevent something worst from happening to your family member were flushed down the drain?

And what do you think of me giving you kinda 'wrong-ish' or just 'made-to-fit-myself' advices?

And the fact that I am one of your family members but I failed to highlight that I care about your health as much as I care about myself?

And the fact that in the end the worst case scenario happened?

I am very frustrated and annoyed at the same time.

Not that I want to be bossy about anybody's life but please have an open minda and sincere heart when you come to me and ask me about something medically related.

Not that I know everything in this entire world about MEDICINE, but the fact that I spent 1/3 of my life studying and working and still studying should somehow give me some insights of the medical conditions no? I would be able to ask around my other doctor friends that are doing the speciality no problem. I am not afraid to say that I do not know as human and health are two sacred things, cant be treated as simply as that.

How could you just googling or just asking your friends makes you more confident with your own conclusions and opinions?

Have you ever imagine what a medical student have to do to get their graduation certificate? What a junior doctor has to do to get full license to kill practice? What a specialist has to endure to get the specialist registration?

Ha. Whatever. Haha.

In the end, I'd say I won't be bothered. It is your health. If you are not bothered to take care of your own health, why should I?

You must heard about 'second opinion' no? Google it and use it. But make sure it is reliable and have authority.

But this phrase might suits the current situation.

p/s : Alterations are made from time to time to reflect the current situation.

I just wanna highlight that sincerity and open mind are needed to achieve fully-informed medical discussions.

Believe me, it is not just clear cut as what you read on the internet or even the anecdoctal experiences one or two of your friends had experienced.

Please refer to the person who will be held responsible if anything happen, who have good insights on what is going on, definitely not Bomoh!

OK. Nak pergi makan, rasa lapar plak!

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